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Lap Of Honour has brought health, wealth, happiness and dreams come true to people and organisations the world over, through (self) awareness coupled with the calm wisdom and courage to manage change.

I have used feng shui as a front for my self-discovered 'therapy' since the 1980s. Here is the true formula that has successfully worked for hundreds of my clients, using feng shui as ‘the bit at the end’ that efficiently supports the process. 

Cracking Your Code

First, we play Columbo. We review your life, uncovering patterns of who, what, when, where and why as clues about your belief systems and the constantly replaced players in your life’s drama. We crack the code and break the pattern.

Then we consider your ‘wish list’, gaining clarity on hopes, dreams and aspirations of how your life will be. You will get what you ask for, or something better. How it will come is not your problem. We even get to fine-tune outcomes.

Finally, we put you in the right place, at the right time, facing the right direction, harmoniously in your space between heaven and earth - where the grass is always greener. You will have the awareness, tools and support to realistically manage change.

(not so) Secret Formula

The key lies in our belief systems. We create our present realities based on past experiences, often held in the subconscious. The feelings that come from these realities are what we tend to recreate, proving ourselves right about who we think we are, or ‘should’ be, even though it may not be who we truly are, or wish to be any more.

This is where we need to un-learn in order to allow our life scripts to get up to date with the truth of who we really are, over and above the safety of the smallness that we allowed ourselves to be.


“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves ‘Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous?’ Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
Marianne Williamson, as quoted by
Nelson Mandela in his inaugural speech.

By simply following our uncomfortable, though familiar feelings back to their source - often in childhood, or somewhere early on in life - we can locate our depressed 'pause buttons' and, with awareness, set them free. With our natural purity and power reclaimed, it’s easy to allow new, more desirable choices to come to life as we grow into healthy, purposeful, more passionate human beings.

For example, where a dominant (personal or business) partner may be replacing a parent, sibling, best friend or bad experience, your awareness will give you the power to turn this around. Your change will allow change in those around you too, so we all get to live life beyond the safety of a record stuck in an old groove.



 
 

“You are never given a problem that you can’t solve.”

John Demartini

 

“Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakes.”

Carl Gustav Jung

 

“It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.”

Antoine de Saint-Exupery

 

“All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him.”

Buddah

 

“The last of the human freedoms is to choose one’s attitudes.”

Victor Franki

 

“Grief teaches the steadiest minds to wonder.”

Sophocles

 

“Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.”

Mahatma Ghandi